Sometimes I get to remember what I already have and how whole I already am. It's easy to look at pretty pictures and shiny new items and to think that we may need any of that to feel complete. It's easy to feel desire. But all these things are just…
Beautiful period panties
The idea of period-proof panties already intrigued me: they're literally panties that can hold menstrual blood without all the possible negative effects. But now these panties in the new and first colour scarlet make me go wild! Period panties are a product of THINX. And they are revolutionary! Okay, until…
Spirituality meets polyamory, and they fall in love
My previous writings about polyamory resulted in me getting quite some comments and questions from friends along the lines of 'this is all nice and good, but aren't you just perfectly monogamous?' Well, I may as well am, but this depends on how you see. My first post about the…
The many ways of Love – and how to do it
My most-recommended book of 2015: The Ethical Slut, a book about shaping and sizing relationships according to your wishes in an ethical and sustainable way. You may not expect it from the title, but The Ethical Slut (TES) is a really smart book! I learned a lot from it and…
Befriend your Body
This is important. In the middle of the destructive messages ingrained in our (Western) cultures we need to be true to ourselves and learn how to love. :) I found this image without a source. Earlier I wrote about body positivity here.
Clothing reconsidered
In my post Love your Body I introduced the topic of body positivity. I wrote something about how I think getting used to being naked or else in simple clothing will be good for your body image and self-love. I then did not specify simple clothing which makes it a…
Love your Body
Lately I've been thinking a lot about both physical and mental health and taking good care of yourself. One thing that bothers me tremendously is the beauty industry, for they want you to believe you're ugly, so you'll buy their products. This quote I heard in a video summing up…